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2018 Wedding Trends We’re Loving at The Corner District

March 21, 2018 · Leave a Comment

At The Corner District, our two event spaces serve as blank canvases so that couples can bring their wedding vision to life with the help of their Georgia wedding vendors! Our open floor plans and onsite tables and chairs allow for many unique seating layouts. With the perfect color scheme, wedding vision, and decor, the spaces can be transformed to host your dream Georgia wedding. Today we’re showing some of our favorite wedding trends and looks that are sure to make your wedding stand out!

Bright + Bold Colors

The first of our favorite wedding trends is a bright + bold color scheme! This mardi gras styled shoot is giving us some major inspiration for paring two bright colors in a way that doesn’t clash. Check out these gorgeous, bold, colorful details below.

“Designing this table was LIFE! I love dramatic designs and pairing black with pops of color created the perfect combination of elegance and drama. ” – LB Harper of Savvy House Weddings

Photography: B.Rich Photography, Precious T Photography, Crystal Artis // Designer: Savvy House Weddings // Florist: Ten Point Floral Design // Stylist: Alex Eye For Style // MUA: Monta Makeup Art // Hair: Kilah Creations

Timeless Fairytale with a Pastel Twist

Our urban vintage space offers a unique setting with a charming speakeasy feel. Complete with original wood ceilings and floors and exposed brick and white plaster walls, it’s a space brimming with personality and offers tons of natural lighting. It’s the perfect setting to host a wedding with a timeless fairytale look. But what we’re loving right now is a twist on the overdone blush wedding trends the past few years. The look below is perfect inspiration for choosing a color that still gives you a pastel, timeless feel without it looking like everyone else’s wedding.

Photographer: Arrowed Beginnings // Makeup: Vigilante Cosmetics // Styled by: Stems Atlanta, Storybook Weddings, Shannon Ford Photography, The Prissy Plate Company // Florals: Stems Atlanta // Gown: J. Andrew’s // Jewelry: Anna Bellagio

Light + Airy with a Romantic Flair

We adore this wedding trend: a light and airy look with a romantic flair. This real wedding at our warehouse and parlor venue so perfectly capture the benefits of a well-lit wedding venue! “After looking at virtually every venue from North Georgia to Macon, we stumbled upon The Corner District! As I began to explore the website, my stomach immediately got butterflies. The Venue was perfect. It was light and airy! It also had the romantic vintage flare we were looking for. ” – Our gorgeous bride, Vanessa

Photography: Allison Pedigo //Day-of Coordination: Ivy Marie Weddings // MUA: Blushed by Naomi // Hair stylist: Glam by Mami // Table settings + rentals: The Prissy Plate Company // Linens: CV Linens // Cake: Kat Lush Cakery //Signage: Along the Lines Designs

Bold + Glamorous Valentine’s Day Wedding at The Corner District

February 14, 2018 · Leave a Comment

Our North Georgia venue was a perfect fit for this Valentine’s Day Wedding shoot! Since we’re a vintage industrial wedding venue in the suburbs of Atlanta, The Corner District has all the charm of a city wedding venue, but with the quaint ambiance of a small town. Our venue is known and loved for its speakeasy-esque parlor with exposed brick and plaster walls, original hardwood floors and ceilings, and the most dreamy lighting thanks to the huge windows in the front of the building and multiple chandeliers glimmering above.

The lighting is truly what set the mood for this Valentines Day inspiration shoot, and Marc & Anna Photo and Film captured the details beautifully.

Inspiration behind the day:

This inspiration shoot was designed by wedding planner and floral designer, Ivy Marie Weddings, who dreamt up a unique take on this beloved couple’s holiday. Favorite elements of this shoot included a moody palette of black, deep raspberry, green and gold, a two-piece dip dyed wedding dress from Sweet Caroline Styles, an intimately styled setting and plenty of bling from Trumpet & Horn and Melànie D.

Advice for brides planning now:

For brides wanting to recreate this look, don’t be afraid to go bold! From a dark red lip to a crop top wedding dress, from black iced desserts to blood red candles, to make a statement that stands out – go bold! Pair moody details with refined details, such as classic pops of gold, lots of greenery, and neutrals to allow your color palette to shine.

Brides who love the idea of a colored dress, consider talking with a custom makeup designer who can make the perfect hues that will compliment both your dress and skin tone. We loved the eye shadow crafted by Love Thistle paired with a bold red lip that tied in the raspberry dip-dyed skirt. If you love the idea of black iced cakes and cookies, but don’t love the idea of it staining guests’ teeth, talk to your baker. It’s better to start with black icing and add just a little food coloring (versus starting with vanilla and adding a lot of coloring).

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You can check our this gorgeous wedding shoot featured on Wedding Chicks.

Perfect Food & Cocktail Pairing Ideas for Wedding Receptions

January 24, 2018 · Leave a Comment

At our blank canvas venue, we love seeing our couples get creative with how they celebrate– especially when it comes to food! The sky’s the limit. After all, the night is all about celebrating the bride + groom’s unique style as a couple. From burgers to salads, we’ve got the perfect food and cocktail pairing for your reception!

Depending on the schedule of your wedding day, you might be serving light hors d’oeuvres or a full, 7-course meal. Regardless of your food options, the time between the ceremony and celebration is a key time to provide guests with light snacks and spirits. If you’re trying to decide what to serve, there are quite a few options that would be perfect for your guests whether they have a seasoned palate or a family of picky eaters. Consider the following inspired food and cocktail pairing ideas for your wedding reception to make everyone happy.

Photo: Marc and Anna Photo and Film

Cheese Skewers & Wine

Wine is always a fan-favorite for many people, so it’s important to offer a snack that pairs well with both red and white wines. Not surprisingly, cheese skewers are the perfect option in this case, but try getting a little more creative and serving them in a more convenient way. Create some cheese skewers by creating small blocks of different types of cheeses on a toothpick and serving them with pieces of apple or grapes. You can use lighter cheeses to pair with white wine and heavier or older cheeses for those who will be drinking red. If you’re serving a fairly fruity wine, you might even consider skewering cheese with pears, peaches, or cherries to bring out the specific flavors in the wine.

Not only is this a great pairing for adults, but you can also offer kids the same kinds of appetizer since cheese and fruit are a fairly popular snack for kids. If you can, consider skewering the children’s snacks on a pretzel so you can avoid the safety hazard of giving the toothpicks.

Photo: Kelly Anne Photography

Sushi & Moscow Mules

If your wedding venue is located in a cooler room or climate, then sushi and Moscow mules are certainly a pairing you’ll want to consider! The cooler temperatures are important for keeping the fish fresh so that their flavors really pop and blend well with the beverage. Moscow mules are made with ginger beer, vodka, and lime juice, so the similar flavors are perfect for pairing with sushi. If you’d like, consider offering a few different kinds of sushi to meet the preferences of your guests, and hand out the beverages in smaller glasses to match the portion sizes. If you’re going with appetizers that include fish, be sure to let guests know about this in their wedding invitations. Sushi is an acquired taste, and you may need to have a backup option for some guests, like avocado rolls.

Caprese Salad & Aperol

If you’re embracing Italian-themed food options for your wedding, small Caprese salad appetizers are a must-have. This fresh dish includes ripe tomatoes, a fresh cheese, and basil leaves, drizzled with a sweet balsamic or salt. To make them more appetizer-friendly, use toothpicks to slide on a cherry tomato, a cube of fresh mozzarella and a small basil leaf. You can also drizzle them with sauce or offer small bowls for dipping. The perfect pairing for this food is a light cocktail made with Aperol or Campari, or a small glass of rosé. Aperol and Campari have reduced alcohol content and a refreshing flavor that pairs perfectly with the light snack of a Caprese salad.

Fish Tacos & White Sangria

Nothing says a beach wedding like zesty, white sangrias and fresh fish tacos! This pairing is to-die-for, with the bubbly beverage complementing the soft fish and creamy sauces of avocado and lime. To ensure these flavors blend at their best, be sure to add lemons and limes to the sangria flavor and drizzle the lime juice across the fish tacos just before serving.

Caesar Salad & Bloody Mary Cocktails

Not everyone is going to want to drink wine all day long at your wedding, and pairing oysters with a Bloody Mary is a great option for people looking for dramatic flavor. For this inspired food and cocktail idea, fill a small shot glass with a spicy Bloody Mary, and top with a shucked oyster as both a garnish as well as a stylish appetizer. The two pair well together because of the cocktail’s bright, tomato base, which goes well with shellfish. If you want, you can serve the oysters on a larger tray and opt for creating other fun Bloody Mary garnishes like celery, bacon, or spicy pickled vegetables, and decorate the glasses.

Sliders & Beer

If you’ve got a large crowd at your wedding, chances are a lot of them will prefer to have a cold glass of beer during cocktail hour. This can get tricky because of the wide variety of beers available, but there is one food pairing that you can’t go wrong with whether you’re offering a light, hoppy beer or a dark stout: sliders. Win the crowd over by offering smaller glasses of beer, alongside a small slider with whatever toppings you prefer. With endless options, the slider toppings are totally up to you or the caterer. If you want to give more options, you might opt to have a “slider building bar” where guests can dress their appetizers how they’d like.

Regardless of the toppings, a burger and beer pairing is perfect for a laid-back wedding or a summertime event. If you’re not sure what kinds of appetizers are best for you, you’ll want to reference a few factors to help you decide. Things like your caterer, venue, and theme can all help you to decide what foods will be the most fitting for your audience. For example, a traditional wedding in a boutique hotel might warrant older wines, aged cheeses, and cured meats, while a laid-back vintage theme might do better with spiked teas, biscuits, and tarts.

When it comes down to it, your personality should shine through your food & cocktail pairing, so go with food options that you and your partner love.

What are some of your favorite food and cocktail pairing ideas? We’d love to hear!

The Best of 2017 at The Corner District // North Georgia Wedding Venue

December 27, 2017 · Leave a Comment

This year was an amazing year for The Corner District. From styled shoots to real weddings, we have so many memories to celebrate! We are so thankful for every person who walked through our doors this past year. Our lovely couples, friendors (vendor friends) and guests have brought so much life + joy to our North Georgia venue. We can’t wait to see who 2018 brings to our doors!

Below we’ve shared some of our favorite memories from 2017. Check out some of the best of 2017 at The Corner District, including snow pictures!

Tips for Understanding Your Wedding Venue Contract

November 15, 2017 · 4 Comments

Wedding venue contracts can be scary and can certainly take the fun out of wedding planning. But don’t get discouraged! Most of the clauses and rules are actually meant to insure your wedding day goes as smoothly as possible. If you are still struggling to decide on where you would like your wedding to take place then don’t worry there are loads of locations that you could pick from (for example, the kitsap memorial state park wedding venue). It might take you a while to find it, but when it comes to your wedding you want everything to be perfect. Our wedding venue manager is sharing important things to look for in your wedding venue contract, most contacts are well structured and therefore this process is easy. Moscow outdoor wedding venues have made this process seamless for their clients, with the contact being structured efficiently it makes it easier to understand. Apply this to your other wedding vendor contracts, as well!

Fees & Payment Rules In Your Wedding Venue Contract

Initial Deposit.

You will be required to pay an initial deposit to secure your wedding date with the venue. Some brides ask if their date can be held without a deposit while they consider other options. But without a deposit, a venue won’t want to pass up potential business from other brides interested in that day.

Cancellation Fees.

Don’t ignore this part, thinking “it will never happen to me.” If for some reason you have to cancel or move your wedding date, make sure you know whether or not you will be refunded the initial deposit. In most cases, if you cancel your event, you forfeit the amount of the initial deposit. However, if your date can be rebooked, you should get you initial deposit back. But, you still might incur a cancellation fee.

Payment Method Fees.

If you choose to pay with a credit card or an online payment portal that charges a fee (sometimes, they can be up to 3%), know that the charge might be passed along to you. This is so the venue isn’t loosing the required amount needed to secure your date. Some venues may only accept checks because of this.

Other Terms and Conditions In your Wedding Venue Contract

The Details.

Read your contract thoroughly to understand even the smallest of details. For example, if you’ve always dreamed of a confetti or rice exit, your venue may not allow this. Sometimes, only flower petals, sparklers or bubbles may be used as they don’t leave any trash left to be picked up. Also, pay attention at your wedding venue tour. You may find out answers to these types of questions there as well.

Damage Deposits.

If you are required to pay a damage deposit, know that you might not get it back. We have experienced children throw rocks at string lights to shatter the bulbs, intoxicated guests damage amenities, and so on. Your contract will likely say that the client is responsible in full for the actions of all guests, outside vendors or other agents. We collect a $500 security deposit that is returned within 3 days after the event upon inspection by the venue manager.

Alcohol Policy.

This one is so important! Because service of alcohol to an intoxicated person is against the law, know that the venue reserves the right to stop service to a specific individual – or maybe even completely. If the venue is a BYOB facility, you still must have a bartender and insurance/liquor liability. And if you choose to have a dry wedding, that doesn’t mean your guests can bring their own alcohol to serve themselves.

Clauses that Protect Both Parties In your Wedding Venue Contract

Force Majeure.

This one sounds silly, but needs to be included. For this purpose, a “Force Majeure Event” means if any event occurs that is beyond the venue’s control – like a national emergency, act of war, or act of God – the venue has the right to cancel or delay your wedding. You’re thinking, “that won’t happen at my wedding,” but this clause also includes very real possibilities like an earthquake, fire, flood, severe weather, power outage or blackout. This just happened to so many couples during Hurricane Matthew!

Insurance.

Our contract suggests that wedding insurance be purchased to cover the investment of the wedding. For the amount of money that is spent on the big day, an insurance policy that protects that investment can run as low as 1% of the entire cost. If you do not closely read your contract, you may miss this helpful bit of information!

We hope these tips help you better understand your wedding venue contract! From all of us at our North Georgia venue, we hope your wedding is everything you’ve dreamed of and more. Cheers!

Tips for Making the Most of Your Wedding Floral Budget

October 18, 2017 · Leave a Comment

We Used the Same Florals to Create 4 Different Looks

When it comes to a wedding floral budget, most brides have preconceived ideas because they really don’t know what is in season and how much different flowers cost. When doing your research and searching for inspiration, you will likely find that the blooms you love most are either out of season or beyond your floral budget. And if you have peony tastes on a rose budget, that’s okay! This just means it will require some imagination to achieve the look you’re going for while staying within your budget and seasonal restraints.

Our North Georgia vintage venue teamed up with Sarah Bush Designs to show brides how they can achieve various looks within one budget, all while using the same flowers and greenery.

Tips for Making the Most of Your Wedding Floral Budget:

1. Familiarize yourself with similar swaps

Peonies are one of the most sought after flowers, but they are seasonal – much like everything else. Before you write off roses, consider the fact that because they are almost always in season, the price tag won’t be as high. Plus, there are options like the cabbage rose that offer a similar look. Sarah also loves to substitute Juliet roses for peonies, noting, “I recently had a bride who didn’t have the budget for peonies, and we were able to sub in Juliet roses to achieve her vision of soft delicate flowers throughout her bouquet. The prices of roses vary depending on the type and availability throughout the year, but they’re a great flower to start your wedding florals with.

When working with greenery, Sarah says, “I’m almost always able to find eucalyptus and deep greens to design with. I’ll occasionally run through a farmers market and grab kale, rosemary and jasmine. You’d be surprised where some of your wedding florals will come from!”

2. Opt for a few of your favorite blooms, combined with more budget-friendly options

If substituting your favorite flower simply isn’t an option, consider adding in subtle touches of what you really want (like a few peonies) with other staples or budget-friendly flowers so that you can achieve the look you want without blowing your floral budget.

“On of my favorite ways to wow on a budget is by using garlands,” Sarah shares. “Garlands are a little more time consuming, but they make a lovely statement and are a great building block for your wedding. By using a garland as your centerpiece, I’m able to stretch your desired flower further by interlacing it within the garland and having it be more of a focal flower than a flower within an arrangement. I advise all of my brides that garlands will not only wow your guests, but are a great way to save in your budget!”

3. Using neutrals as the base, with pops of color for wow-factor

This shoot was all about adding to the linens and playing up the colors of each tablescape. Think about your color palette and which color you want to really shine. Using a neutral palette to make a certain color pop is a beautiful way to bring a crisp finish to the setting. Below, Sarah elaborates on how she was able to do this.

Using the Same Florals to Create 4 Different Looks:

First, I used a lot of greenery and neutral flowers to accent each table setting. From there, it was picking one flower with a deeper tone to bring out the colors and vibrancy of the setting. For the teal setting, the simple white and ivory neutrals of the hydrangeas allowed some soft blues to shine through and keep the focus on the table. The arrangement didn’t overwhelm the tablescape, but still served as a nice focal point for the eyes.

For the blush setting, it was all about letting the garland do the work and building a blush and jewel tone centerpiece within the garland. This allowed the golden tones of the vintage china to shine through and achieve a very elegant and luxe feel to the design. Using simple spray roses and eucalyptus around the backs of the chairs brought the focus not just to the garland, but to the whole design around the table from front to back.

For the jewel tone setting, an arrangement with asymmetry and neutrals with a deep plum tone made the blues of the table setting really pop against the purple of the linen.

This same arrangement was transferred to a neutral table, and instead of pulling a certain color out of the pallet, it enhanced the crisp tones of the lace and gold silverware.

One last tip! Use the recipe of “thrillers, spillers and fillers.” By using several types of fillers and spillers to create a base and shape for the arrangement, you can bring in a few types of thriller flowers (peonies, orchids, the “wow” flowers) to create a beautiful arrangement with a great deal of variety!

Photography + Florals: Sarah Bush Designs

Linens: Graceful Tables

Vintage China: Vision Expressions

Styling + Props: Twigs and Lace

How To Ensure You Get The Wedding Photos of Your Dreams | Carrie Reagan Photography

September 20, 2017 · Leave a Comment

At our vintage industrial + parlor venue, we know that every bride wants gorgeous wedding photos! And we want them to love every single photo! After the wedding, all the couple is left with (beyond wonderful memories) are their amazing wedding photos. Our dear vendor friend Carrie, of Carrie Reagan Photography, is sharing a few tips to ensure you get the wedding photos of your dreams!

Communicate with your photographer.

While every photographer has their own style, the ultimate goal is to beautifully capture your wedding day and get all the shots that you envisioned! Don’t be afraid to tell your photographer if there’s a special shot or idea that you want. After all, this is all for you to remember your special day! If you’re on Pinterest (and who isn’t?), share your wedding board with your photographer. Even if you don’t have a “must take” photo list of images, this will help give your photographer insight into your wedding style!

Details, Details, Details.

You’ve spent months planning and preparing every little detail of this day. You put thought into every little decision, from your shoes to the invitation. So why not have beautiful photos of these details? Finishing touches like writing your vows on pretty card stock instead of on crumpled notebook paper really makes a difference. Another quick tip, make sure simple things like clothing and shoe boxes aren’t scattered over the dressing room for the getting ready photos.

First look photos.

Whether you are a traditional or modern bride, first look photos are always a great idea. It’s no longer considered bad luck to see each other before you walk down the aisle, and there are pretty big perks that go with it. It gives you a chance to have a private moment before the ceremony that can ease your nerves. Plus, it gives you more time for your wedding photos, allowing you to enjoy your ceremony and reception and ensuring you get all the photos you want!

Pre-ceremony photos.

If you decide to not do first look photos, know that the bulk of your styled photos can be taken before the ceremony. Aside from the getting ready photos, it’s nice to get as many photos as time allows before your ceremony. You will be thankful you did! Taking photos of bridesmaids, groomsmen, and any family portraits before the ceremony leave you more time to actually enjoy the day you’ve spent so much time planning for. Make sure to plan your time accordingly. Leave yourself some time for touch-ups before the ceremony.

Short on time?

If your photography contract doesn’t include coverage for your entire day, make sure you make the most of it. Chances are your photographer will be there for at least a portion of your reception. Speak to your coordinator or DJ and have all the main events of your reception scheduled within the first hour. While most couples go into the first dance after they are announced at the reception, you can follow this with special dances, toasts and cake cutting. This way you + your guests are free to party the night away without strict timelines. It’s also not uncommon to do a photo send-off well before the night is over. It’s a great way to get the most out of your wedding photographer and capture all the big moments from your day.

As a North Georgia venue, the beautiful scenery always makes for some amazing photo opportunities. We cannot get enough of gorgeous wedding photos, and we love to see couples swooning over the photos from their special day! Photographers, do you have any tips for getting the wedding photos of your dreams?

All photos by Carrie Reagan Photography

Why Brides love The Corner District’s Charming Parlor

August 30, 2017 · Leave a Comment

At our North Georgia wedding venue, we love all things unique + beautiful! We cannot get enough of creative + elegant wedding details that capture the unique personalities of the bride and groom. That’s why The Corner District has two event spaces, our parlor + warehouse, that serve as blank canvases so that couples can bring their wedding vision to life with the help of their Georgia wedding vendors.

Photography: Sara Bush

Our Charming Vintage Parlor

One of the bonuses of booking your wedding at The Corner District is the obvious charm + character of our vintage parlor! Our parlor is 100+ years old with a charming speakeasy feel! Between the two-story ceilings and original wood floors, the parlor is transformed into a magical space with any decor. Our crystal chandeliers and floor-to-ceiling draping set the mood for a romantic, upscale reception at our Atlanta venue.

Brides love The Corner District’s parlor because of how easy it is to make it your own! A tip we share for making your event unique would be to add your small touches to our wide assortment of vintage lounge furniture, antique mantle, buffets + original wood bar area. These pieces offer exceptional spaces for you to fulfill your vision. Some of our favorite examples include hydration stations + food stations or gift tables.

Photography: Kelly Anne Photography

Since we have so many unique pieces included in our venue rental, there’s no need to rent props or furniture! Furthermore, we provide floor length ivory linens that match the pads on our mahogany Chevalier chairs. This is just another special touch that brides love + sets The Corner District apart from other venues.

Photography: Blume PhotographyPhotography: Ruzin Cunningham

Brides especially love the parlor because it’s a space brimming with personality. Elegant crystal chandeliers and draping make this a more formal area for your cocktail hour, reception dining and dancing. From the beautiful interior to the small town charm of Main Street just outside the doors, every occasion is unique!

Photography: Katey Penton PhotographyPhotography: Carrie Reagan Photography

Your Rehearsal Dinner at The Corner District

July 26, 2017 · Leave a Comment

At our vintage warehouse + parlor venue, we love rehearsal dinners and what they represent! We realize that for a lot of couples, this might be the first time your extended families are meeting. After all, rehearsal dinners are a time of coming together as you + your significant other begin this new journey.

Our oversized venue spaces lend themselves to casual elegance in a comfortable, relaxed setting. Just like at restaurants and banquet facilities, our venue is a place to come in, eat and leave. We offer the venue for a 4-hour event with early arrival to decorate and help make it your own! Reserve just one space, the parlor or warehouse, or you can reserve the entire venue for an all-day soiree!

Make It an All-day Soiree

We’ve had the warehouse set up for a guys day with cornhole, a growler station and other activities that allows them a place to hang out the for the day while the girls are busy with nail appointments and bridal luncheons. In the meantime, we are preparing the parlor for the dinner that evening.

For one rehearsal dinner, large grills were brought in to prepare a steak and baked potato feast, which was this groom’s favorite meal. While the grilling was going on, the guys were hanging out entertaining themselves with cornhole, passing a football and enjoying the growler station.

Get Creative

At our blank canvas venue, we love seeing our couples get creative with how they celebrate! We’ve had low-country boils, caterers that bring large grills for steak dinners, food trucks, traditional buffets and plated dinners. The sky’s the limit. Slide shows, bands, DJ’s, bartenders and other surprises can be arranged to help make your party everything you want it to be! After all, the night is all about celebrating the bride + groom’s love story and unique style as a couple.

Some of Our Favorites

Some of our favorite parties have revolved around the groom and his family. After all, this is his family’s opportunity to contribute to the wedding festivities. Often, rehearsals will have a special meaning that centers around him. We have had a Mardi Gras themed dinner to reflect the groom’s origins, which was complete with a second line parade thru the streets of town. Dinner included a low country boil and traditional Mardi Gras decor.

One of the sweetest rehearsal dinners we’ve hosted involved the mother-of-the-groom’s gift to her new daughter-in-law. She knew the bride wanted an elegant wedding, but she gave in to the groom’s wishes to have a rustic barn wedding. To the bride’s delight, the rehearsal dinner was all about the glam!

We were able to create a beautifully styled Gatsby gala, complete with gold chargers, custom linens + feather plumed centerpieces, custom decor that would rival any party Daisy could throw! The bride was able to have her vision incorporated into the wedding weekend!

At the end of it all, we appreciate to opportunity to help kick off your wedding festivities! We would love to discuss how we can make it a sensational beginning to your happily ever after. Click here for more information and inquiries.

To the Mother of the Bride | Cherishing Each Step

June 28, 2017 · Leave a Comment

Mother of Bride. It isn’t a coincidence that the acronym for these three words is MOB.

I think it is safe to assume that at least one time during your daughter’s wedding planning, a MOB scene will develop. That’s where you, your “bride,” and possibly the bridesmaids will come to tears over certain details. Planning a wedding is time consuming and can be stressful. Here at The Corner District, we understand that there will be differences in opinions on various wedding details. But even moreso, we believe that a wedding should be a time where a mother + daughter are able to cherish a sweet and exciting journey.

To the mother of the bride,

Be there for your daughter in this process. Help her when she needs it and love + support her unconditionally. But remember, this is her and her fiancee’s wedding. Even when you have differing ideas or opinions, make sure to cherish each step, making this sweet time as memorable as possible.

It’s important to remember that even if you are paying for the dress, it is still her dress. Your daughter will fall in love with her dream dress once in a lifetime, and having your support behind her will mean the world to her.

It doesn’t matter if you are paying for the food, it is their food. The couple works hard to make decisions that will fulfill their wedding vision. Little details from signature drinks to unique food stations like popcorn bars, your daughter will be making decisions to help her dream day come alive.

Sure, your saged advice is seasoned with experience and can be helpful, but that doesn’t mean it’s timeless. Mothers, things have changed since we planned our weddings. Let your daughter take the reins and just enjoy getting to be a part of the her day. Be supportive and helpful, but let things happen on her timeline. When she needs your help, you will know it.

Although you might be anxious to run out and buy your MOB dress, let the bride pick her venue and her dress first. Colors, flowers and overall decor will change several times throughout the process. Part of the fun of planning a wedding is taking each of these steps one at a time and cherishing the journey.

It will be over way too fast, so make sure it is a pleasant experience and include only those that will make it so. No need to invite the entire wedding party and groom’s family to join in wedding dress shopping. They aren’t buying or wearing the gown so do we really care what they think? Maybe, but try to include them in something less stressful, like a reveal after the purchase of the gown.

So many “traditional” aspects of the planning process are now passe and for a good reason. Each task, when checked off the list, should be done with a smile and a sense of one step closer to an amazing day that isn’t about the “show” but about the love and commitment that is signified with the wedding. After all, that is what we are here for.

Sincerely,

A 2x mother-of-the-bride + wedding professional

Mothers of the bride, what was your favorite part about helping with your daughter’s wedding? What tips do you have for a new MOB? We’d love to hear!